Good resources

http://www.doorposts.com/details.aspx?id=14

http://www.doorposts.com/details.aspx?id=3

The if-then chart and the blessing chart have been great for our family to help me and Sean with disciplining and correcting undesired behavior and rewarding desired behavior.  We keep the charts on our fridge and refer to them daily....often!!!!!!  On the back of the charts, suggestions are given for each behavior, which was really helpful, especially for the if-then chart.

Proverbs 12:1 Whoso loveth instruction loveth knowledge: but he that hateth reproof [is] brutish.